Helping Families Remain Friends ...
Family Mediation Center of NY & NJ

   Welcome to the Family Mediation Center of NY & NJ.  This center was created to help families in turmoil experience an easy, less confrontational manner in which to resolve any concerns or issues they are experiencing.  

   Marriage and Divorce are never an easy event.  It begins with plans and dreams for your future together.  And unfortunately ends for many forgetting the love they once shared and going for the others jugular.  We're here to help you see that the end of your relationship or shared dreams, does not mean you have to part ways as enemies, but can remain friends for the benefit of your children and others involved.
   
   It is our hope to make this process as efficient and comfortable as possible for all involved.  We are here to help you determine your fate in dissolving your family unit.

To schedule an appointment please call 732-439-3481, or email BMDavidson@familymediationnynj.com or DivorceMedOBNJ@aol.com

We will gladly schedule a consultation mutually convenient to all parties, including evenings and weekends.

We are located in Old Bridge, New Jersey 08857
Suggested Readings:

For Kids:
Dinosaurs Divorce by Marc Brown and Laurie Krasny Brown

It's Not Your Fault Koko Bear by Vicki Lansky

Mom's House, Dad's House for Kids: Feeling at Home in One Home or Two by Isolina Ricci


For Parents:
Cooperative Parenting and Divorce, "Shielding Your Child From Conflict" - A Parent's Guide to Effective Co-Parenting by Susan Blyth Boyan & Ann Marie Termini

Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life by Abigail Trafford

Prince Charming Isn't Coming: How Women Get Smart About Money by Barbara Stanny (Not just for Women!) 

Reconcilable Differences: A Consumer's Guide to Divorce Mediation by William H. Donahue, Jr.

The Fundamentals of Family Mediation by John M. Haynes


NJ Child Support Guidelines
http://www.judiciary.state.nj.us/csguide/index.htm 
Children's Bill of Rights:

   All children shall enjoy the following inalienable rights:
 
   
   The right to be treated as important human beings, with unique feelings, ideas and desires and not as a source of argument between parents. 
   
   The right to a sense of security and belonging derived from a loving and nurturing environment which shelters them from harm. 
   
   The right to a continuing relationship with both parents and the freedom to receive love from and express love for both. 
   
   The right to "listening parents." 
   
   The right to express love and affection for each parent without having to stifle that love because of fear of disapproval by the other parent. 
   
   The right to grow and flourish in an atmosphere free of exploitation, abuse and neglect. 
   
   The right to know that their parents' decision to divorce is not their responsibility and that they will still be able to live with each parent. 
   
   The right to continuing care and guidance from both parents where they can be educated in mind, nourished in spirit, and developed in body, in an environment of unconditional love. 
   
   The right to honest answers to questions about the changing family relationships. 
   
   The right to know and appreciate what is good in each parent without one parent degrading the other. 
   
   The right to have a relaxed, secure relationship with both parents without being placed in a position to manipulate one parent against the other. 
   
   The right to have one parent not undermine time with the other parent by suggesting tempting alternatives or by threatening to withhold activities with the other parent as a punishment for the children's wrongdoing. 
   
   The right to be able to experience regular and consistent parental contact and the right to know the reason for not having regular contact. 
   
   The right to be a kid and to be insulated from the conflict and problems of parents. 
   
   The right to be taught, according to their developmental levels, to understand values, to assume responsibility for their actions, and to cope with the just consequences of their choices. 
   
   The right to be able to participate in their own destiny.
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